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Over the past five and a half years, I’ve had the opportunity to experience being a female solo business traveller, both internationally and domestically. As a 28-year-old female, I’m frequently asked whether I feel safe traveling alone in foreign countries. My friends and family often express concern for my safety, even when I’m traveling with a group. It’s a common question and one I’ve come to reflect on deeply.
Le Meridien City Centre Bahrain
To put things into perspective, I’ve completed five extensive business trips across the Middle East, visiting nine countries, and one major trip to China. In addition, I’ve made countless trips within Canada and a couple in the United States. Despite the variety of locations and the cultural differences I encounter, I’ve never once felt unsafe in any of these places. However, the feeling of discomfort is something I’ve experienced more than once, and I’m sure many other female solo business travellers can relate.
Fairmont The Palm – Dubai, UAE
Discomfort and safety are not always the same thing. To me, discomfort arises from situations that may make me feel uneasy or make me question my surroundings, but never from the fear of real harm. On the other hand, safety is a more fundamental feeling – one that has, for the most part, been constant throughout my travels.
Jeddah, Saudi Arabia
Take, for instance, my experiences with cab rides. This is one common scenario that can be a wildcard when it comes to uncomfortable encounters. In many of the places I’ve visited, the taxi drivers are predominantly male. Most of the time, the ride is uneventful, with the driver either keeping quiet or making polite small talk. However, about 30% of the time, the ride turns into a more unpredictable experience. Some drivers ask personal questions, sometimes overstepping cultural norms. Others comment on my appearance. These situations can feel uncomfortable, especially being alone in a foreign place, but they don’t pose a serious threat to my safety.
Doha, Qatar
One of the most uncomfortable experiences I’ve had while traveling solo was in Kuwait. I was staying at Residence Inn Kuwait City, and I used the Careem app to order a taxi. The app was connected to my mobile number, so the driver contacted me on WhatsApp to let me know he had arrived at my hotel. The car ride quickly became unsettling when he began staring at me through the rearview mirror and making frequent comments about my appearance. The ride, which should have been relatively short, felt like an eternity. But the discomfort didn’t end once I reached my destination. The driver continued to message me on WhatsApp, making more inappropriate comments. After blocking him, I felt a sense of relief but also recognition of the unique challenges female travellers sometimes face.
Shanghai, China
Despite this uncomfortable encounter, I feel fortunate that this was the most serious issue I’ve faced during my travels. I didn’t feel physically threatened, and I knew I was in a region with strict laws that likely helped deter any more egregious behaviour. Still, it’s important to acknowledge that discomfort – whether emotional or cultural – can sometimes be more of a challenge for women traveling alone than the physical risks we often worry about.
The Great Wall of China
There are also other considerations that solo female travellers often must navigate, especially when it comes to public spaces, personal security, and unwanted attention. For instance, going out alone at night can feel daunting in certain places, and I’ve learned to be extra cautious. One habit I’ve developed is avoiding eye contact with strangers, particularly men, when I sense they’re staring. This isn’t just about avoiding uncomfortable interactions – it’s about controlling the way I’m perceived and ensuring I don’t unintentionally draw attention to myself. Additionally, while it may be a personal preference, I’m always mindful of where my hotel room is situated. If my window faces an area where I feel exposed, I’ll keep the curtains drawn. I do this because I don’t want anyone to know I’m traveling alone. I’m probably more cautious than necessary, but this level of awareness provides me with peace of mind, especially when I’m far from home in unfamiliar surroundings.
Muscat, Oman
I’m aware that my experiences may differ greatly from others. I recognize my privilege: the ability to travel frequently, coupled with my personal safety during these trips. The places I visit undeniably influence my experiences, and I know there are places in the world where safety might not be guaranteed. But I still think it’s important to shed light on some of the challenges for female solo business travellers.
Albuquerque, New Mexico
Throughout my travels, the majority of people I’ve encountered have been kind and helpful. I’ve had countless strangers offer assistance when I’ve needed directions or help with a language barrier. The kindness I’ve experienced far outweighs the negative encounters, and it’s this generosity that often leaves me feeling reassured, even when things get uncomfortable.
Hong Kong
